Sigh. Should I even waste my time replying to this? I'll give it one last try. I care a lot about children. I spent several years raising them at one point. I despise the idea of selecting traits to impress people. And it's precisely because the parenting world is so pervaded by this practice that it's hard to select children well. If you walk at random into a prestigious embryo selection firm in a big city, chances are you're walking into a place that specializing in creating children for this purpose. It takes a conscious effort to avoid the pervasive bogusness of the parenting world and engineer a fetus that's actually good.